Boyfriends' are not just for display, or just for you so that you can poke them and tickle them. They also have other uses besides those. Hugs and kisses are another example. Another one is the use of the ears. We have ears so that we can listen to you all rant and cry your hearts out to us. Our ears are not just for display too. And we too have emotions. You can't expect us to not feel anything when you all are sad and down. I know you know that you think we can't really experience how you are feeling. That's true, we don't know how you feel, but, we can feel how you feel. Like when you're happy, I'm also happy. When you're sad, I'm also sad. That's what emotions are for, for a better understanding of each other, so we can cheer each other up, or open up to each other and not to keep burdens to yourself. We also want to share your burden, if not all, I want. I don't want to be someone who " don't care" about you, cause I do. I don't want to be someone that doesn't do anything while my honeyy is experiencing all the bad things all by herself and I do nothing. I don't wana be like that. I want to be someone whom you can trust and someone close to you. I know you don't like to talk about personal matters, nobody does. But isn't better if someone else shares your burden? Even if its by a little, you will feel more at ease, and at least know there's someone who will always be there for you even if your whole world collapses. So I hope I can be someone you trust and not just a display set. Cause I don't want you to suffer alone, infact, I don't even want you to suffer at all...
My heart aches, to see you like this. And if you think I'm joking or just trying to make you happy, no I'm not. I'm speaking from the bottom of my heart.

I just don't understand you can. In what way is honeyy not a good daughter? She listens to you, at least most of the time. You can't expect her to listen to EVERYTHING you say. She's not you. And please don't make her like you. She's she, and you're you. She's fine the way she is right now and I love her very much thank you. So what if she's weaker in her studies even if its by a little. Does that mean you get the right to control her life? And keep scolding her like some I don't know what? She's been putting up with your nonsense since she's young. Do you even know what she's experiencing right now? Being her mama, I think you don't even know her favourite colours don't you? How long have you not sat with your daughter and talk to her nicely about everything else that you DON'T have to comment about. So what if she gets into 3/1 and ITE. You should support her and not keep shooting her, thats what parents should do, don't they? I seriously hope you'll read this, and I know you won't understand shit. But hell, I've said my piece. Go reflect on what you've done for your daughter besides what you're SUPPOSED to do. Raising her up as a child is the responsibility of a MOTHER. But controlling her life when she's a teenager ISN'T the way its SUPPOSED to be. Times are different now, and I know you're still living in the past. So give it up and move on. Don't think just because you raised her, she must listen to everything you say. Like I said, she isn't you, and she has her own things and dreams she want to do. She doesn't want to be a second you, so give it up, give her some space, and let go.